Semua Yang Terpaksakan

Kali ini topiknya seputar relationship, in general. Hubungan sm siapapun, mau sekali-sekali ataupun intens kl lg beruntung pasti ada dampaknya bwt diri kita. Baik atau buruk itu pilihan dari cara pandangnya aja. Yg ga bagus kl udh mulai ketergantungan, yg bikin kita membuat jarak dengan diri sendiri. Asing sm diri sendiri, mulai ga jelas dengan diri sendiri. Argh.. rugi bgt! Kl nemu bentuk hubungan yg kyk gt mending diputus aja, tp setelah dicoba diperbaiki tentunya. Cuma kl udh bulak-balik dekok alias mentok heu3 buang-buang waktu. Kecuali ada satu yg mau bener2 ikhlas ngalah. Mau ikhlas. Yg mau. Krn kl mau PASTI ada jalannya. There's a will, there's a way..

One of my best friend's gettin married and it's been a year since their engagement but the subject 'us' hasn't existed yet. Adjustment after another adjustment but still is not yet well adjusted. Gemes aja. Tp emg tiap org unik, tiap relationship unik, ga bs disamain. Slama ini tau dr versi ce nya, td pagi tau dr versi co nya. So I jez told him..
"Now u know who she is, so take her or leave her cos rome also wasn't built in a day. Proses smuanya jg. Untuk dia nrima kmu jg proses apalagi untuk ikut cara kmu. Jgn dipaksa nti jg ngerti. Kl mau org yg udh bener2 stabil, kawin aja sm mba2 27thn tp justru lahan ibadah kmu untuk mau sabar nuntun dia ke yg 'seharusnya' bukan ke cara kmu. We all ain't perfect."

Dear someone, maturity is a choice and has got nothing to do with age, twenty something even forty something. Wisdom is not wasted on the old nor is youth wasted on the young. It's not about like or dislike or doing what we want but what we're supposed to do. U may find great things as u're moving..

"When yer lonely and you start to hear
The little voices in your head at night
You will only sniff away the tears
So you can dance until the morning light
At what price

And in your head do you feel
What you're not supposed to feel
And you take what you want
But you won't get her for free
You need more time
Cos your thoughts and words won't last forever more
And i'm not sure if it'll ever, ever, ever work out right
Will it ever, ever, ever work out right?
Cos it never, never, never works out right" –Sunday Morning Call, Oasis